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My mission is simple. It’s to get you to a place of feeling good when you think and speak so that you lead from a place that lifts you and others around you.. I know conscious, authentic communication (the kind that makes you feel vulnerable) may make you feel nervous at times, but I promise if you stick around here, you’ll get better and better at it. You just need the tools to own the room with confidence, influence vs. inform and make genuine connections with the people you work with.
It’s time for us all to ditch the facade of being what we’ve been programmed to believe is “professional.” AKA: What you think other people want you to be and step into the clarity of just being you. After all, it’s you and your expertise that got you the job and the clients in the first place. 😃
And if you’re wondering what spirituality and science has to do with becoming a better communicator and leader …. buckle up! You’re in for the inside-out self-improvement journey of a lifetime.
Stop Holding Back: How to Speak Your Mind at Work
Discover proven strategies to overcome the fear of speaking up in the workplace. Learn how to confidently voice your thoughts and ideas, enhancing communication and collaboration.
Turning Toxic Talk Around: 3 Strategic Moves for Positive Workplace Communication
Discover the transformative power of strategic communication with this blog, "Turning Toxic Talk Around: 3 Strategic Moves for Positive Workplace Communication." Unveil the secrets to navigating and neutralizing toxic communication patterns in professional settings. Learn practical strategies to adapt your communication style, ensuring you're heard, respected, and effective in every interaction. Perfect for professionals seeking to enhance their workplace dynamics and foster a more positive, productive environment.
Biggest Way to Success in 2024 (hint): It's Not in Your Resume
Discover the unexpected secret to professional success in 2023. This insightful blog reveals why a people-first mindset, not just achievements, is crucial for career growth. Learn from real-life stories of C-suite leaders and embrace authentic leadership for a transformative year ahead. Perfect for leaders seeking to enhance their communication and public speaking skills.
Breaking the Silence: Conquering Fear of Speaking Up in Toxic Work Meetings
Uncover the power of your voice in the workplace and learn how to overcome the fear of speaking up in toxic meetings. This blog guides you through transforming silence into strength for career advancement.
The Cost of Silence: How Not Speaking Up in Meetings Can Derail Your Career Progress
Explore the critical impact of not speaking up during professional meetings. This insightful blog delves into the risks of withholding your valuable input in a work environment and provides practical strategies for effective communication. Uncover the importance of voicing your thoughts to foster career growth, navigate toxic work cultures, and transform meeting participation into a powerful tool for professional advancement.
Navigating Workplace Conflict: A Guide for Corporate Professionals
Discover Tihanna Louise's expert strategies for navigating workplace conflict with grace and professionalism. Learn the art of perspective shifting, separating facts from beliefs, and effective communication to transform challenges into opportunities. Dive deep into the world of corporate communication and leadership with insights from www.tihannalouise.com/blog.
Don't Be a Robot at Work: Why Vulnerability Can Help You Crush It in the Office
Being vulnerable at work may seem daunting, but it can actually help you build stronger connections and achieve greater success in your career. When you show your human side and embrace your unique characteristics, you become more relatable and approachable to others. In this blog, we'll explore the power of vulnerability in the workplace and how it can help you stand out from the sea of professionals who are all trying to project a perfect image.
How I Shattered the Corporate Glass Ceiling (Without Breaking a Nail)
Are you a professional woman who feels like you've done everything right in your career, but still haven't achieved the level of success you desire? It can be frustrating to feel stuck in your current position or not be recognized for your accomplishments. But the good news is, you're not alone. With the right tools, it is possible to overcome the obstacles that may be holding you back.
Escaping Shame: How to Stop Secretly Hating Yourself
What does your inner monologue look like? When was the last time you stopped to congratulate yourself for a recent accomplishment, or even a simple acknowledgment of how far you have come?
If you’re like most people, the answer (sadly) is probably not recently or even not ever.
The Daily Detox - Why You Should Clear Your Energy Field Before and After Work
Given much thought to your energy lately? I don’t mean your enthusiasm level or your daily caffeine intake or even your post-workout, post-deal-closing, post-quittin’-time I’M KING OF THE WORLD go-get-em energy. I’m talking about your internal, deep-seated, very personal energy, which is essentially the filter through which you experience, interpret, and understand your world.
I’d say that makes it pretty important.
Workplace Toxicity? 3 Ways to Protect Your Energy Like A Pro
Let's face it: we've all had to deal with a toxic workplace at some point or another. Whether your experiences have been as extreme as the one I’ve described above or not (oftentimes, these types of situations can very quiet indeed: an eye roll behind your back, a microaggression of some kind, malicious office gossip… not all toxic workplaces display themselves so loudly), I can guarantee that if you’ve spent any significant amount of time in the corporate world, you know exactly what I mean when I say toxic workplace.
Why I Walked Away From A 6-Figure Contract, Part 2
When I walked away from a 6-figure contract earlier this year (completely separate from my scenario above), I walked away from a superficially diverse c-suite filled with mostly (white) women and a few men. And, as excited as I was to join what was sold to me as a “sisterhood”, it was a horribly toxic, inauthentic nightmare of a company - that literally made me and my family sick.
Why I Walked Away From A 6-Figure Contract, Part 1
Yes, we are all responsible for our own energy, protecting it, elevating it, understanding it, and shifting it for our own good. To do so successfully, we must accept and implement a radical level of self-care.
Sometimes this self-care looks like staying. And sometimes it looks like walking away.
How to Thrive (Even) In A Toxic Workplace
TikTok is the latest tech giant to be taken to task by its employees for what is being described as toxic workplace culture and an emphasis on “relentless productivity.” According to The Independent, TikTok staff claim to be suffering burnout and severe mental distress due to its punishing workplace culture. Exhausting hours and sleep deprivation are common amongst staff, while some employees said they averaged 85 hours of meetings per week!
How Women Speak: The Professional's Playbook to Harness the Power of Feminine Energy
Let’s talk about something that isn’t necessarily new, but is rather a much-needed approach for successful women and men in today’s professional environment to break limiting gender stereotypes inside of communication at work, helping them cultivate healthy professional relationships on all levels. Hint: this has got nothing to do with sacrificing any part of who you are.
How to Give and Receive Negative Feedback (and why it's so good for you)
I recently observed an exchange between a female senior executive manager and a female employee where the former called the latter “the weakest person we have” in her position in the company after the employee asked for assistance and feedback in an area where she felt she needed help. Shocking? It doesn’t just shock because of its poor taste. It’s truly terrible, toxic management from a communication standpoint because…
There’s No Such Thing As A “Difficult” Conversation
We sacrifice authenticity for ease, honesty for tact, and skirt around issues to make life “simpler” but in reality all this does is create conflict within ourselves. Our conflict-aversion becomes conflict-creation.
Why We Need More Feminine Energy in Leadership
What if the real issue we should be discussing is less about gender and more about energy?
Here’s the real issue I want to address: it’s time to move away from the gender conversation and start addressing masculine and feminine energy. Feminine and masculine energies are equally important BUT in the world we’re living in today, more feminine qualities – like empathy, receptiveness, openness, intuition, etc – are desperately needed.
Step Away to Step Up: The Ongoing Death of Hustle Culture
More now than ever, women are the driving force behind The Great Resignation: the death knell of hustle culture and the demand for less doing, more being in everything we do.
What if owning the stage actually means… showing up on it less?
What I mean is this: hustle culture teaches us that in order to BOSS UP (and change our lives, apologies to Lizzo) we have to SHOW UP. All the damn time.
Success, Energy & Leadership
Success is achieved when and only when you can perform at the top of your game with high-level, highly-engaged energy for a sustained amount of time. Engaged energy is the type and amount of energy you are using at any given time on any given day. This is important because engaged energy plays a vital role in your success.